Women Who Are Men and Abuse

Are men afraid of strong women? And do women really see themselves as worthless? Or are men who are afraid of independent thinking women, learn to successfully manipulative these women into seeing themselves as powerless? If I am here, shower you with attention, this is your worth, and if I am not here, cold and defiant, this is how little … Continue reading Women Who Are Men and Abuse

Love Yourself

Sometimes a relationship ends, and just as much as you go around asking people for their opinions, every one points their fingers at you saying that it was your fault. So the frustration to explain yourself debilitates the whole process. You face rejections instead of understanding. You blame yourself for the outcome. And then when you get back, and that if you do, you get … Continue reading Love Yourself

Purpose of place: finding Allah through life’s mission

Really love the approach of Shaykh Muhammad Adeyinka Mendes when it comes to spirituality. Imbuing spirituality with social issues, which I find personally relatable when it comes to the teaching or therapeutic line like counselling or psychology. It was a privilege to have him here all the way from the US and to remind us … Continue reading Purpose of place: finding Allah through life’s mission

Dear zindagi life lessons on freedom

Therapist: please tell your friend that sometimes we choose the tough path only because we feel that to achieve important things we have to take the tough path We feel we need to punish ourselves But why? Why not choose the easy way out? What is so bad about it? Especially when we are unprepared … Continue reading Dear zindagi life lessons on freedom

Lightworkers and Narcissists

In my previous post, "Islamic view of a twin flame union",  I wrote about the concept of twin flame, and although the concept of twin flames or twin souls is highly seen as a divine connection of oneself losing their egos and loving unconditionally, there would be in some cases, contradicting views as the 'runner' and … Continue reading Lightworkers and Narcissists

Are we capable of trusting others?

via Daily Prompt: Trust Trust? What is trust? Is trust the person you could share about your fears and insecurities to without feeling they are not being receptive of it? Is trust knowing that when you needed something, someone will do it for you? Is trust knowing that when you asked for someone to accompany … Continue reading Are we capable of trusting others?

Reliever of anxiety and doubt

Sometimes as a friend we get so used to asking our friends "What's wrong..?" "Come talk to me.." whenever they have a problem. And we'll realize that sometimes the more they speak of their problems the more agitated it can get for them. How comforting it is rather, to someone who doesn't hear much of … Continue reading Reliever of anxiety and doubt