Love Yourself

Sometimes a relationship ends, and just as much as you go around asking people for their opinions, every one points their fingers at you saying that it was your fault. So the frustration to explain yourself debilitates the whole process. You face rejections instead of understanding. You blame yourself for the outcome. And then when you get back, and that if you do, you get … Continue reading Love Yourself



In our foolishness at times we question will I find a job as good as this? Will I find like minded people as in line as my goals as this? We fear of taking the risk, we fear losing company. Yet we hold on to something that doesn't work anymore. Every time we say I'm … Continue reading Faqir 

Purpose of place: finding Allah through life’s mission

Really love the approach of Shaykh Muhammad Adeyinka Mendes when it comes to spirituality. Imbuing spirituality with social issues, which I find personally relatable when it comes to the teaching or therapeutic line like counselling or psychology. It was a privilege to have him here all the way from the US and to remind us … Continue reading Purpose of place: finding Allah through life’s mission

Sincerity after dispossessing

Sometimes when I regress, I do wonder if I need a spiritual path or a professional counselling therapy? Sometimes I asked myself, wasn't Rasulullah salallahu alaihi wasallam's life filled with love and peace between his brethren and his wives? He salallahu alaihi wasallam was a simple man, he is so loving and merciful, his relationships with others were filled with love and … Continue reading Sincerity after dispossessing

Alexithymia part 1

Sometimes we believe that being patient and subtle won't work when it comes to facing people or doing da'wah. We have to know that da'wah doesn't necessarily mean our spoken words but also our character. How we deal with our families, how we deal with our friends, how we deal with our acquaintances, our colleagues, how we deal with our … Continue reading Alexithymia part 1