Were we mere blank slates?

In a tale of human progress and a defence of progress, people learn from their parents and their parents' parents, and who, after trials and tribulations, wind up committed to each other. Unrecognizing that our life is a story of fellowship. Because when you look deeper into the unconscious, the separations between individuals begin to … Continue reading Were we mere blank slates?


Purpose of place: finding Allah through life’s mission

Really love the approach of Shaykh Muhammad Adeyinka Mendes when it comes to spirituality. Imbuing spirituality with social issues, which I find personally relatable when it comes to the teaching or therapeutic line like counselling or psychology. It was a privilege to have him here all the way from the US and to remind us … Continue reading Purpose of place: finding Allah through life’s mission

Dear zindagi life lessons on freedom

Therapist: please tell your friend that sometimes we choose the tough path only because we feel that to achieve important things we have to take the tough path We feel we need to punish ourselves But why? Why not choose the easy way out? What is so bad about it? Especially when we are unprepared … Continue reading Dear zindagi life lessons on freedom

Reliever of anxiety and doubt

Sometimes as a friend we get so used to asking our friends "What's wrong..?" "Come talk to me.." whenever they have a problem. And we'll realize that sometimes the more they speak of their problems the more agitated it can get for them. How comforting it is rather, to someone who doesn't hear much of … Continue reading Reliever of anxiety and doubt

My experience as a participant myself

In 2014, I went to SPOL as a participant, all alone. It was as if I was walking on this earth all alone. I went to places alone.. I seeked knowledge alone.. I didn't wait for nobody. But what's amazing was that, I was never alone. I may be alone, but everywhere I went, people approached me and talked to … Continue reading My experience as a participant myself

I am sure

When I decided to put up this blog, I thought I wanted to share my stories with anyone out there who might want to look at problems with both hope and responsibility. Obviously, stating certain taboo things in my about me made me consider greatly whether i wanted to share it on my other personal social medias. Which … Continue reading I am sure

Sometimes I am wrong..

I would like to start with this.. Sometimes I feel like a failure. Because I cannot hold up as good as people does. Sometimes I break. I falter. I fall. Sometimes I'm angry. I grieve. I regress. Sometimes, I have bad days. Sometimes, I make mistakes. Sometimes I'm hurt but I dare not to say … Continue reading Sometimes I am wrong..